DO YOU WANT TO HAVE CHILDREN AT THIS TIME? What do you think about it?

Manuel Romero
3 min readNov 29, 2020

Trying to have a stable life requires a very demanding mental preparation and having the gallantry of maturity: work, home, trade, economy, emotional stability, and a lot of other skills. You are not the only one who thinks like this. Even today, as the world lives, grandparents, uncles, and relatives must contribute and contribute with the life of a person who comes into the world, which must learn to survive in these times.

Translation: “the people from my age don’t have child, because one of their 9 roommates is usually disagree

Some testimonials …

“I am 31 years old, I am married, and I do not want to have children, my main reason is that for now I do not feel prepared mentally, emotionally or financially, also my mind thinks about the few opportunities that there are work and education speaking.

My husband and I work, it is not bad for us, but the two of us barely left and we have no idea how to pay the expenses of a third person who will depend entirely on us. And, the truth is, I am looking to adopt. I am very excited to be able to adopt a boy or girl and to be able to give her my care and love. They are not easy processes, but I am really more excited to adopt than to have a childbirth, and before that, I want to finish stabilizing myself and have all my things in order to have a safe heritage for a child. It is my point of view and it is my life plan, which could change of course, but at least I have a vision of what I want. But the reasons anyone has for having or not having children is respectable.

I think that many people have experienced different things and that is why now, they can decide, well they do. Maybe they grew up lacking, maybe in a home where they were unwanted or just want to wait a bit until they have emotional / financial stability, etc. Not all of us live the same realities. “Arii Juárez

“They don’t want to, many young people today have the opportunity to DECIDE, which their parents did not do,” you grow up, you get married and you have a family, “that’s the way things were and they didn’t question themselves. With or without children, the important thing is to learn to make decisions and be happy with it. “ Ethel Fonseca

“It is very responsible not to have children if you do not want to, if you do not have the maturity, the economy and the stability to have them. Maternity and paternity care must be in the hands of who can guarantee a dignified life.” Angelica Velázquez.

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